Thanksgiving is the time for the traditional turkey feast, pumpkin pie (my
favorite!), family get togethers, the
Macy’s Day Parade, football games, kids coming home from college, donating to
the needy, and the beginning of holiday
shopping (aka the day before Black Friday!) But most of all, it is a time to
give thanks for what you already have.
I'm thankful for my family! Sharing a holiday meal in 1996. |
When we are feeling thankful, we are physically, emotionally
and spiritually, in a positive state. Being thankful improves your overall
health. Being thankful enhances your immune system. So, starting today, why not
make the spirit of Thanksgiving and the feeling of thankfulness as a part of
your every day life, all year round?
So what are you thankful for?
In the book, 101 Exercises for the Soul, Dr. Bernie Siegel
suggests writing a Gratitude List to change your thoughts and health into a
more positive direction:
“Gratitude is one of
the best ways to improve your attitude and feel better. You can’t be troubled
and grateful at the same time…Start by making a list of at least twenty things
you are grateful for in your life. You might start with the basic necessities,
like having a roof over your head, a chair to sit on, food to eat, a warm bed
at night, and so on. Then continue with the more meaningful and personal areas
of your life, such as your friends, family, work, pets and health. When you
finish, display the list where you will see it often, especially when troubling
thoughts start surfacing. Keep adding to you list over the next several weeks,
and take the time to read it every day to remind yourself all the things in
your life that you are grateful for.”
Drawing a Gratitude Mandala is another way of expressing
thanks. This is a personal Gratitude Mandala by Donna Gentile – artist, singer/songwriter and founder of the
Community Mandala Project. I love this mandala and what it represents. I
completely resonate with Donna’s uplifting and powerful words.
My personal mandala
would be very similar to Donna’s, but I would also
like to add one more very important thing that I am grateful for.
I am grateful for having chronic Lyme disease ( Multi-Systemic Infectious Disease Syndrome) and
being chronically sick for almost 13 years. I am grateful for this life
experience! Sounds crazy, doesn’t it? I
mean who in their right mind would be thankful for being sick?
Now that I am healed, I can see that this was a life
lesson. My sickness was a lesson! A lesson in compassion, spiritual growth, facing and dissolving fears, listening to my intuition, loving myself more, forgiving myself and others,
spreading hope and awareness, and most of all, a lesson in being grateful every
day!
I am grateful for my life! I am grateful that I chose the
holistic path! I am grateful that I am
aware of my thoughts! I am grateful for
- just about everything! And I thank God
every day for my new found awareness. I have learned to make thankfulness a
permanent trait. And the best part is –
if I can do this – anyone can!
So what are you thankful for? Have you ever stopped to think
about it?
If you haven’t, start now! Keep the glorious spirit of
Thanksgiving alive all year long! Let gratitude become a part of your life each
and every day. Thank every one and every thing as much as you can. The more you
give thanks, the more you will feel blessed. The more you feel blessed, the
happier you will be. And a life filled
with happiness is what it's all about. Isn't this what you are striving for?
Well, isn’t it?
Or did you forget?
Well... I’m here to remind you.
You’re welcome….J
BE THANKFUL
Be thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire,
If you did, what would there be to look forward too?
Be thankful when you don’t know something
For it gives you the opportunity to learn.
Be thankful for the difficult times
During those times you grow.
Be thankful for your limitations
Because they give you opportunities for improvement.
Be thankful for each new challenge
Because it will give you strength and character.
Be thankful for your mistakes
They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you are tired and weary
Because it means you’ve made a difference.
It is easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also
thankful for the setbacks.
GRATITUDE can turn a negative into a positive.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles and they can
become your blessings.
~Author Unknown~